I am sorry for what I did and not for who I am.
Don't confuse shame and guilt with remorse. Shame is about who you are. (I am
a bad person.) Remorse is about what you did. (I behaved in a bad way.)
Shame turns the attention away from the wronged person back to you, so
it's really about you and how you feel.
kind of we-are-all-bad-people-underneath kind of thinking. But if we
can peel back the punitive feeling attached to these words, there is a
beauty to them.
matches the deed you now regret. It feels right for that moment when you
feel someone else’s pain as your own. It allows for redemption—another
one of those weighted words—and healing.
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